jonirowland

While I agree it is a headache, did I give too many chances or did I screw things up by getting upset?

Am I in the wrong here? How would you have handled the situation? Situation in chronoical order below: Met a girl over a month ago at an event- she gave me her email and all of our coorespondence was through email. We go on a date and she expressed she had a good time. I asked if she wanted to transition to texting from email after the date (mind you her phone number was in her email signature) she didn't respond to this point so we kept emailing. Tried to set up a second date with her and she suggests dates. Week goes by with no confirmation. I send follow-up email day of and she says she is busy with homework, but suggests alternative days. 4 or 5 days go by still with no confirmation of plans. I send a nice follow-up message. She apologies for not being response, but doesn't mention plans. I message- I had a good time with you and would like to see you again, but if the feeling isn't mutual please let me know so I can move on. She apologies profusely and immediately suggests and then confirms plans. We meet for the second time and she suggests meeting for a third time- at her place for cocoa. She suggests last Tuesday. I work in two different offices so I work in one office the days I meet her- I move my work schedule to meet her for last Tuesday. 3 days pass and it's mid-day Monday telling me she can't meet due to a group project after I moved around my work schedule to meet her for Tuesday. She suggests meeting this upcoming Monday or Tuesday. I ask if X time works for Monday- she comes back to me 3 days later- asking for Tuesday now after she gave Monday as an option. I ask if Monday is still open. No response. I send a follow-up email Friday night- no response. Saturday night- I'm frustrurated and tell her this is the fourth time she left me hanging and that I feel like I'm a backup plan incase she can't make other plans. Thus putting an end to things. Did I overreact here? Did I give her too many chances or should I have continued being patient? Was I the one who ruined things?