Hi,
I find it very hard to navigate what I’m feeling due to me being on the spectrum. Currently I have a long-distance relationship for around 3 years. He lives in another country meaning I can only see him for a month and a half or so during summer holidays. Recently I started hanging out with some friends more and it seems like I caught feelings for one of my friends. If I interpret the signals right he seems to have the same feelings for me.
One of the problems is that this guy is the ex of my good friend, they’re still good friends and she has someone else right now but I wouldn’t know how it would go over if I’d get in a thing with him. I wouldn't wanna risk ruining our friendship over this. Another problem is of course my current boyfriend. I love him very much, but the distance is of course very tough. I like talking to him every night and I know I am very important to him. It would hurt me a lot having to break up with him but having these feelings for someone else also doesn’t feel right. The distance and lack of touch and whatever is terrible to deal with. Him moving permanently here would be at least a year away.
I’m not sure what to do with my situation and I hope someone can give me some insight.
