brownie28

He was very contrite and didn't deny or minimise the situation. He apologised and said that he was flattered by her.

No - I would be staying because we have had a wonderful relationship up to this point. But I don't know if I would be able to put this to one side.

I'm not sure what difference it makes that we are not married and don't share any children?

They haven't been changed and he has admitted the contact and content. They met via Twitter she followed him and the y struck up a conversation about music.

Hiya, I have just found out that my partner of 7 years has been exchanging flirty texts with a woman he met online (her partner found the messages and sent to me via social media) I feel bloody horrible and betrayed. He is generally a good person, I think, but has made a spectacular mess of this, and I can't stand being lied to. Untangling lives is such hard work and if I go, I almost certainly will lose contact with my step children who I adore. (I'm not from the place that we live in and will move home which is a considerable distance away) What would you do?