Need some advice. Been with a guy 7yrs this Feb. Moved into a flat together after a year then found out I was pregnant and we had a little boy. Just after our 3yr anniversary we moved into a 2 bed flat and I was so excited for our future but was skeptical of my bf be behavioural changes not coming home for days. One day to put my mind at rest I logged on to he's iPad messenger not expecting anything but ultimately read a 2wk stream of messages that ended in them discussing how enjoyable their night together was. I was emotionally ruined cried for weeks all the trust in the guy in loved gone. Gave him an ultimatum me and he's boy or go be single. He chose us so gave him a second chance but said it's he's last chance. Since then I have no proof he's cheated again however have seen messages of he sexting girls and on one of he's birthdays he kissed a girl Infront of and asked to go to hers for a threesome but never remembered the next day. On 8th Feb we had our daughter and agin I thought things were food but what I read yesterday changes things. I found messages on 25th Feb saying thanks to a girl for the chat over drinks as he's feeling very alone and hasn't had a meaningful relationship in the last 9mths (basically that means whilst I was pregnant), a string of 2wk messages where he's started 20 questions back and forward a lot sexual and told her he's hasn't felt this good about a girl for ages and a message to a woman he bumped into in work saying nice to see you today did you go home and when she said yes said she could have jumped on it like old times. Tbh I feel enoughs enough he clearly doesn't want me but how the hell do I broach the subject? Do I just say go but how will I pay the rent or live? Currently on £600 a month maternity but rents £750 then bills are £600. Do I get him to pay April's rent giving me time to sort out help or what if I tell him to go and he just goes leaving me to foot everything?
