LoveSiiick

23 he is also 23

4 hours ago, I would prefer to meet him but he’s not showing interest by leaving me on seen.

Because I feel desperate texting him again after he ignored my question. My other friend is suggesting we hang out tomorrow so idk what to do.

I am not having a meltdown, It’s been a long time and my friend is telling me I should block him since he’s ignoring my question and it’s giving me anxiety.

Are you suggesting me to text him again tomorrow a few hours before the time we planned to meet? To confirm because I won’t be leaving unless there is a confirmation this restaurant is an hour away from me. I have had men flake on me before so I definitely do not want to waste my time or gas.

I don’t want to double text I asked him a simple question, I don’t find it difficult to answer.

Yes.

He said he wasn’t interested in me, which is fine so we don’t talk anymore.

I asked him if the new restaurant was ok or did he prefer to meet at the original one. He left me on seen.

I have a date scheduled for tomorrow and originally I suggested a restaurant which he agreed to then today I changed my mind because looking at it it’s a hassle to find parking there. So I texted him that I had another restaurant in mind as you can see he never said anything back. Do I block him?

Because I was really busy with school and he wanted to talk longer which was fine since I was busy. I usually never chat with someone more than two weeks but this time it was different and I think it was worth it. The date was a lot better than the other 2 I went on in the summer.

For context we talked for a month before meeting in person. We met last saturday and we called on tuesday night. However, i’ve noticed his lack of responses are indicating he’s losing interest. 5 hours ago he texted me “good morning (my name)” “we gotta talk ngl, whenever u have the chance ofc” I hate when people do this, i replied back saying “about what?” and he didn’t reply. What to do?

I have been in therapy, but it’s not working for me since I’m still thinking of him. I’m just hurt a lot because I tried to be more giving for him I wanted him to see I didn’t want to be toxic anymore. But now it’s like he’s the one who brings out fights instead of me. He told me in my face that he told his roomate I was a b*tch while we were having a normal conversation. I don’t understand. I feel he will hate me forever.

No, this is someone totally different we met on a dating app. We dated for 4-5 months.

I already blocked him and deleted his number I’m just not feeling well mentally. Like I wish he would apologize to me. I’ve apologized so many times. He has never said apologized to me for mistreating me. He told me to k*ll myself and he would ruin my life.

You’re right but I can’t help but be sad. I want to apologize so bad one last time. My friends tell me I should hate him but I won’t or can’t.

Hi, All, Today marks one week of seeing my ex for the last time. Our relationship was toxic we both were used to different things. We couldn’t compromise with one another. I brought out the worst in him. I begged and pleaded for months I forced him to talk and meet me. He agreed because he was lonely. And we talked about how we forgave each other and that we aren’t compatible. I guess he lied to me…..on monday we met up and ended up giving each other oral and then we walked at a nice park. He was thankful for showing him he liked the park. Unfortunately, once we got to the restaurant things went down hill. He ordered something that I liked to show some respect for me. We split the entree because he had restaurant credit. However, he asked if I had cash on me. I didn’t have cash on me I had deposited all the cash I had earlier that day. He started getting frustrated at me and demand that I tip I was angry at him for demanding me to tip and he cussed me out saying how throughout our relationship I was a terrible cheap person. I told him the plan was to get starbucks later we always got starbucks after dinner. I was gonna treat him out he refused and kicked me out of the car. I was devestated, he blocked my number I sent him tons of messages on whatsapp he blocked me then I created fake emails begging and pleading for us to talk about what happened. I was willing to send him $20 bucks for him to eat lunch tomorrow after work. Instead he told me if I ever contact him he will press charges for harassment. He has done this before, I’ve given him money and sex for him to not report me. I am just devastated how he would lie about moving on with everything that happened. I don’t understand what I did wrong except not tipping. Tomorrow marks a week of NC. I’m hurting and I wish I could talk to him again.

No, but he said he is looking for a relationship.

I felt bad for how things happened, this was supposed to be a nice date. But silly me acted foolish who can’t control her emotions.

Hey guys, I had a date with a guy from reddit, he messaged me randomly. And he lives close to my university, we talked for about a week and a half until we met. Honestly, I was more interested in someone I was talking to before him. The issue was that he treated me badly on the first date and I can’t control my emotions. I thought that by going on a date with this guy it would make me happy but it didn’t. I was crying while waiting in the parking lot, but since I was already there I decided to get dinner with him. When we were in dinner I couldn’t really give eye contact he immediately stood up and said “text me when you can make eye contact” and walked out. I was embarrassed, there were 3 couples who heard and looked at us like “*** is going on?”. When I got to my car I called him and he picked up and he said he was sorry about walking out but he was frustrated. He picked me up and we went for a drive, I explained to him what happened he seemed to understand. We got some fast food and he gave me a hug before leaving. I immediately apologized again on text and thanked him for staying. Then he cancelled on me twice, the second time was the last draw for me. I confronted him on why he did this, he said that he is going through a lot of BS and is heavily drinking and smoking weed. He was sorry he was not open about his issues. He said that when he comes back from his vacation he would like to meet. I heard nothing back, as I didn’t know how long his vacation is. I have been thinking about him this past week. I decided to reach out and he replied and called me on facetime. We were on facetime for over an hour until my ride got there. During the call he mentioned he wants to meet up in 2 weeks because he will be back by then. He suggested going to see the cherry blossoms in DC since we live close to it. I would love to meet him, as I find him attractive and fun despite what happened. However, he doesn’t text me and idk if he was ever gonna reach out. I don’t know what to do?