My girlfriend and I broke up about a month ago. At the time we were both very emotional, upset and crying. She told me she loves me very much and wanted to be with me. Then we did not have any contact for about a month. When we did start texting again, she was very distant, matter-of-fact and cold. Which is a complete 180 from her. She is normally a very kind gentle and emotional woman. She tells me that she has healed herself and is moving forward. It just seems like such odd behavior for her because as I said it is a complete 180 of how she normally is. We have dated for 10 years. We did take a couple breaks in between at times but always got back together. I’m distraught because the break up was mostly because of me. I won’t get into the details of that but she was always very loving and caring and now she just seems the complete opposite and I feel hopeless like there’s no chance we will get back together again and I truly want her back in my life. I should say I am probably a bit older than most people on here. She’s 50 and I am 60. Although I am a young some might say slightly immature 60 and do not look my age. Our age gap never was an issue. We have a lot of the same interests. Music, hiking, dinner, shows etc. We enjoy a lot of the same things.