My bf, now ex was doing a long distance thing. We had this connection and talked everyday for hours, texted all day, and had FaceTime dates. This was hours and hours of talking. But we did not meet yet. We became bf/gf even before meeting but we are old enough to know that we have something, I’m 30 and he’s 34 years old.
We told each other we love each other already and he said I’m the love of his life and wants to marry me. BUT I found out he was talking to another girl and they were talking about intimate stuff, sending each other private pics. He doesn’t know that I know that. While he was texting with that girl about intimate stuff, he was also texting me how much he loves me. Isn’t this considered cheating? I know we didn’t meet yet but don’t tell me he loves me and he sees a Future with me and then do this. He ended it and met another girl on an app within days after telling me he loves me. Now she’s his gf and he tells her she’s the love of his life. And I’m stuck here grieving over a guy I never met like a real heartbreak. And he doesn’t even care about me. And it stings me so much that she thinks he’s the greatest guy ever because I’m sure he’s good to her. Is it just to me that he’s doing this and he’s so good to her??
I blocked him from everything and it’s been a month since we ended. But I’m having a hard time moving
on because my feelings were genuine. Please no harsh words.. can’t take them right now..
