This is going to be a long one, so please try to bear with me.
I have been in a long distance relationship for 5 months now. We are around 6000 miles apart. We met on a game and were just friends for a couple months before he confessed that he was in love with me. Initially I wasn't sure what to do as I had been speaking to someone else and I had always felt like this guy hated me. Eventually I decided to give it a try. We have spent pretty much every single day together since, on voice and video calls for upwards of 12 hours a day. He has also gotten close to my son who wants to say goodnight to him and read a bedtime story with him every night.
When things are good they are really good. He's sweet and loving and caring. I love playing video games with him. He is handsome and smooth and easy to talk to. We very quickly agreed that we wanted to be together forever, get married, have kids, live together. I love him more than anything and I want nothing more than to be with him.
However when things are bad they are really bad. We argue all the time. He makes me so mad so easily and we fight constantly. He yells and accuses me of lying and cheating and threatens to leave. I scream and swear and cry all the time.
It is sometimes hard to get intimate because there is no privacy. My room is separated from my sister and her boyfriend by a thin curtain. That being said when we do get intimate it is really good. We have exchanged hundreds of pictures and videos.
I have shared everything with him, things I have never told anyone else before. He has asked questions about my past that i have answered openly and honestly. I've made myself extremely vulnerable.
So today after another argument he has said that if I dont agree to do anything he asks, be a submissive slave (not sexually) and never question him or he will punish me and destroy my life, share everything about me with the world, and break up and block me everywhere.
I love him and want to do everything for him but I dont know if I can live like this. Can a submissive/slave relationship ever be good or healthy? I am really confused about what to do and could really use some advice. Thanks
