Hi I have been dating this girl for three years, she was a second year nursing student at the time i met her, we have been together and i have done a lot for her. But her problem is that she was too full of pride she would answer me anyhow she felt. Down talk me compare me to other guys and tell me things like what you did for me another guy would of done for me, whenever i reminded her of the sacrifices I was making. I have been paying for her rent for three years because he family are not well off and couldn’t afford to help her.
I did almost everything for this woman. just for her to involve her friends in our relationship and those friends were a bad influence. I tried speaking to her but she wouldn’t listen. On her birthday in September she had received an expensive watch gift from her best friends EX boyfriend and she snapped it on her instagram stories and i got jealous I then told her to take the watch back but she refused and I got angry it became an issue and we stop talking to each other for three days.
After I tried to apologize to her explained to her that I don't appreciated her friends ex buying her such gifts, she started getting disrespectful and told me that I was annoying her, she then went to on a trip with one of her friends new boyfriends house. She had blocked me for one week and started posting disturbing pictures and videos of things i do not like such as going to the clubs and licking ice cream in a provocative way while seated in another guys cars etc. It made me feel so sad because all my friends were laughing at me, but she didn’t care. She blocked every number i called her with, she then came to the town and she went to stay at her friend’s house and not wanting to visit me at my house. she continued with her toxic attitude it stressed me out to the point that I was no longer eating or sleeping, she started going out to bars in my town with her friend and whenever my friends saw her they would call me up and laugh at me. It came to a point that i broke up with her. When she was leaving my town she phones me and apologized while going back to her town hence we were in a long distance relationship. I refused because I told her that she only wanted me back so i can provide for her and pay her rent etc.
It was a sad moment because during that time I had bought her an engagement ring which cost me a lot of money but it was supposed to be a surprise. I then took her back and while i took her back while i took her back her iPhone 8 plus got broken and i bought her an iPhone 11 pro max. I went to fix the iPhone 8 plus and when it turned on she gave me the pin only to find out that she was flirting with other guys going on secret dates and accepting money from a guy who wants her. i confronted her and she told me that she did not cheat on me she only played them but i refused to listen I dumped her. took all her small gifts she bought me back to her and I took back my iPhone 11 pro cause i felt it would be disrespectful to leave her with it so she continues flirting. the question is was i wrong?
