Hey, I'm looking for some advice (posted here a while back but have more to add!
My bf and I have been together just over 3 years, I'm 24 and he's 25. He is pretty much settled in his career and has been hinting at buying a house for a while. I want a job to do with languages and would love to work abroad (to improve my skills) before committing to buying a house. I communicated this to him in the past but not recently, and he keeps suggesting careers to me that aren't really related. He wants to buy a house soon because he hates living at home.. I have also said before about not being ready to buy because I want to travel. I'm just always very uncomfortable around the subject because I don't want to lose him and do want a future with him. I would also like to buy but just not yet, but I don't want to hold him back. I have wanted to travel for ages but am concerned he won't think I'm serious about our relationship if I want to go off travelling.. the whole situation makes me feel so anxious which is why I avoid talking about it but now I actually want to start looking for jobs. any advice would be appreciated!!
