Petra27

So much to unpack here. Thank you for your POV.

I hear you. You're right on the mistrust to an extent. And yes he's a bit of a fool. All was there for me to see. We've been dating for 8months. He's getting tested tomorrow upon my request and I'll follow suit. Your comment on proclivities has me thinking 😞

We have an open phone policy. I looked through his whatsapp for contact information and came across this chat when doing a keyword search. I confronted him about it and he came clean but argued it was before he met me. I have nothing against sex workers either. Thanks for your advice. I'm very much on the same page but so saddened as he is such an incredible partner.

Hi all I'm a 36 y/o female and my boyfriend is a 32 y/o male. I recently discovered that he has slept with prostitutes about 6 months before meeting me. He said he was going through a bad time in his life and needed attention. It irks me that my gorgeous man had to go to these measures to get sex. My idea of him has changed and what's worse is that he did not tell me, I had to find out. Has anyone been through similar or have advice for me? What do I do? I love him and he's wonderful however I'm so hurt and confused by this news.