So I posted about this guy like two weeks ago but I feel like more things have happened that have made me even more confused and I just need some outside advice. Basically backstory is that I started hooking up & talking to (through snapchat) one of my friend’s guy friends. This started towards the end of the summer when we were down the street from each other and then once the summer ended I moved about 40 min away and he was at his parents house. We talked through snapchat every day and got to know each other well. We’ve continued to talk through holidays/weekends where he’s been away & so on. In october we talked a little less for like a week and a half and then saw each other again and picked up right where we left off & continued to talk every day. Throughout this time he’s made comments to my friend about being interested and his friend talked to me about how he doesn’t have a lot of experience with more relationship type stuff and insinuated that id have to take control.
We kept hooking up every few weeks when he was in the area and talking throughout the day until about a month and a half ago when he moved 10 min away from me. Now my roommates and his friends/roommates are all really good friends. Still talking every day & started hanging every weekend/hooking up, whether with friends or alone since he moved closer. We never went on a one on one date but things felt really good and comfortable where we were at. Then, him and his friends come over NYE. He kisses me at midnight and sleeps over. Ever since then, talking seems really off. He seems not as into it/some days are better than others but definitely a lot less talking/engaging than before. However, we’ve still hung out every weekend and things are totally normal in person. He flirts and seems really interested, remembers things i’ve told him in the past about myself and my family etc & we hung out for hours alone last weekend & it was so nice, we click really well. It’s just weird to me that the talking over the phone during the week has been so off. I know people are busy so they don’t need to have a conversation every day, but it’s just such a difference to what we were doing before and I’m really confused. Do I bring it up or just see if maybe it’s a weird time and it might blow over? I don’t want to make the friendship awkward because now all my friends are friends with him and his friends and we will be together a lot now since we live close and will be living close over the summer.