Hi, I got friendly with a guy at my workplace but after 3 months I found out he was married. Other co-workers brought it to my attention after about 3 months. Apparently, without my knowledge, he formed so called friendships with other women. I approached one of the other ladies and she said he would be conveniently be waiting outside when she was coming and going for coffee, and also when she came into work in the mornings. He did the same with me. I was horrified to find out he is a player and doing the same with other innocent girls in our company.
He wanted to see me outside work and asked to meet up for coffee or walks along the beach. On our first outing, sure enough, he put his arms around me and asked if I was okay with it. At this point, I didn't know he was married. I really liked him and went along with his affections as he came across as very gentle and friendly. He also seemed a bit shy personality wise and only talked about superficial things and liked to flirt with his eyes. After I found out he was married, he said his marriage is dead and they live like roommates. No mention of a divorce though!
What can I do to bring this to the attention of the company? He took away my concentration during work hours by constantly texting and it also decreased my performance levels.
Help!
