EmotionalOrange

I did not cheat. I left him. He didn’t have sex during separation. Thank you for replying. I will look into more information.

My husband and I have been together for 9 years and he’s always put me through a lot. Lies, betrayal, and secrets. Emotionally cheated with his ex until I got pregnant. & he’s also is emotionally abusive. I left him in April, I then met a man and he swept me off my feet. (Stupid, I know) but it killed my then ex “husband” and he realized what he had with me and promised change. I knew better - he was taking women on dates. But I finally gave in. My son and I moved back home and I’ve been trying very hard to fix our old probs. But he wants me then he hates me. Holds so much resentment and says “he no longer wants to be together and it was a mistake to ask me to come back. That he is better off single.” Then he makes condescending comments about me leaving him. He is killing me and my emotions. I’ve cried all night and don’t even know if I can keep faking a smile anymore. What do you call this behavior? I’m trying to live a happy life together but he makes me feel like trash.