Jsea87

I couldn’t even tell you. I’m a super nice guy that never met a stranger.. but your right as soon as I stood up for myself it was a game changer.. I’d like to hope she didn’t have a backup plan but nowadays with social media and knowing her I was blind.. maybe that’s how she’s just so easily over me .. cheer guess it’s time to go surfing and enjoy my life again..

I don’t want our relationship to be done.. I wanted to understand what was going on that driver her to apparently stop loving me.. maybe Bc I put my foot down.. still no word from her.. I was thinking about mailing a note I wrote a couple of days ago but seems like it may be a bad idea..

She’s 28 and I’m 34… things didn’t start off serious but then “she” wanted it to be so I literally did everything I could for her insecurities..as for the sister thing my girl was mad that I had female friends on my social media even tho I don’t interact with them and pretty much made me delete them no matter who they were which created bad blood between my sister and I.. if it is a life long male friends then I have no problem with them grabbing lunch or something thin not the club or bars.. sorry lol I ran through red flags apparently it just sucks I get no explination

I hope cools down doesn’t mean move on.. all I asked her for was a talk when things felt like they were going south.. and I understand I shouldn’t tolerate that but sometimes we do dumb things for the ones we love I guess

So I’ve been dating a girl for 2 years and as of about a month and a half ago we stayed with each other every single night.. then on the night of my birthday party she didn’t want to come Bc my sister and her are not very fond of each other so she instead chooses to not hangout with me after the party but to go to the club with a male “friend”… this led to her wanting a break to figure out somethings in her life.. so I’ve seen her about 3 times in a month and every time I stay at her house and things seem “normal” but as soon as I leave she’s right back to barly communicating, until Thursday..I had to drop something off at her house and saw her for about ten minutes and she hugged me and laid her head into my chest and then I left.. the following night I asked if she wanted to hangout and she said she had plans with her parents and I said fine.. the next day I tried again to hangout with her and she got upset and blocked me and the only thing I have heard from her since Saturday morning is an email stating she would talk to me when she feels like it… help internet I don’t want to lose her but may be too late