My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years. We’ve had a rough year, he refuses to go to therapy and will barely ever work on his baggage. He often times will project that onto me- and when I confront him he makes it out to be my fault for not putting enough effort into the relationship. Which is true, I don’t. I don’t have the energy to at all, I’m so burnt out. He asked me today if I loved him, and to be honest I do but not romantically anymore. I see a future with him but I can’t figure out a way to leave him. Anytime I try to he persuades me into staying so I feel even more stuck or guilty leaving like it might be the wrong decision. I need advice- how do I leave? Am I doing something wrong? Should I just put forth more effort? I can’t force myself to love him more. I don’t know what to do.