My partner(M, 24) is the jealous-codependent type who can get annoyed/upset by small things, but he gets over it pretty soon. I(F,27) always am next to him in such moments, trying to comfort him and giving explanations.
On the other side I’m also jealous-codependent type and i can get upset about small things he calls absurd. In such situations he gets quite angry and annoyed on the fact that I am upset, we usually start a fight or he gets upset too and sometimes scream at me on the phone, arguing that my reason is absurd and that why do I expect him to comfort me.
He sais that he gets over things quickly and that I don’t do the same, so why do I require him to be there and comfort me as soon as he has no fault for my absurd reason.
I don’t understand who is right and who is not anymore. I don’t know if i ask for too much..
I indeed would like him to comfort me more and to not get upset if I get upset.
