We met in highschool, he fooled around with an ex early on. I have had trust issues ever since then. I forgave him because he came clean immidiatly after it happened, I was also 16
We have been married for 9 years now, I guess I never really trusted him after that. He spends a lot of time online, I think he messages other women through discord and such but I have pretty low self esteem and thought for a while that this was it for me.
We do not belong to any groups, he wants us to spice things up because apparently I seem uninterested in sex but honestly I am just exhausted, I go to school and work pluse we have to children the youngest is 2.
The woman was an old ex of my brothers, not someone I thought either of us were friends with just someone we still were friends with on facebook. He sais he asked her because she seemed like she wouldn't be judgmental about it.
I asked him why we can't practice and would it be okay for me to practice sex stuff on other guys, he said obviously not and that he sees how dumb it was now.