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In what matter?

As statet above. Im not the one distracting her. Im motivating her to actually do appointments and look for internships. Also she doesnt hide anything. We are in a relation for more than 2 Years.

She said she needs that. A friendgroup that doesnt know me. I dont know anything about that group. Not even how many people there are exactly only that theres that one Female friend from school and her Boyfriend in that group

Im planning to move out next summer. What really bothers me is her beeing that defensive with her new friendgroup. Saying stuff like "I want a friend group that doesnt know you". I mean why? Just because she introduces me to them doesnt mean ill be with them every time they meet up.

Im from germany and still in college. So not able to afford a flat

Im in college right now. They were against the relationship from the beginning on. Because im still in college, dont have a car, no own apartment. They said id drag her down. But really I am the one motivating her to do stuff. Like appointments and look for Internships. Her father tries to push her to start job training in a job she might not like. And im trying to make up for her bad relationship with her father by comforting her even more. Which leads to frustration if she doesnt take advice but keeps complaining. After all the reason why i cant visit her at her place is because she is neither an internship nor a training.

I dont have a car no. She can use her Fathers car tho. By wandering around i meant in spending time. Im basically the one coming up with ideas of what to do and with her place beeing a nope im kinda burned out in ideas except for going on a walk every time.

So my Girlfriend and I both still live at home with our parents. A few weeks ago her parents went on vacation for two weeks in Italy. We basically hat the whole house for us apart from the weekends because a friend of us came over. We had some discussions in that time but nothing too serious. After her parents returned, she got into a fight with her dad regarding her getting into training now that she dropped out of college. Her Family was always against our relationship. We could only meet up once a week at her place, with me having to return home in the evening - so no sleepovers n stuff.Her father then limited her internet access and told her i couldnt come over anymore because she decides to take some internships to really make sure that she wants to work in a specific workspace. So first week after having our two week "Vacation" she was really bussy and we didnt meet up. And since we cant see each other at either her or my place it would be us roaming around outside. Wasnt a big deal. She did meet with someone [M 21] we went to school together tho. They spent some nights outside, talking and stuff. (Hes gay so no worries)In the Second week we were to meet up on Wednesday and she asked me when. I said sometime around late morning. When it came to the exact time we would meet up she tried to push the time to noon so she could meet up with that said friend for the 4th time in 2 weeks. So she wouldnt have such a stressfull morning.I got upset and told her to jest get home more early and go to sleep early and we kinda got into a fight. After that fight she ignored me for almost two days while meeting up with said friend again.What is important to know about him is back when we got together it was Him, Her and Me as a group and he tried to pull as apart with lies and stuff back when we got together. After finishing school wie didnt hear from him for a couple of months. So i was like "Hey does he have higher Priority as i do?" And she said that she needs friends and enjoys talking to him about girl stuff. Thats ok for me as long as she doesnt neglect me. After almost 2 Days of ignoring we almost broke up but didnt. NOW THE IMPORTANT PART She also met up with a friend [F 20] from her school with whom she doesnt have any contact with for years. Everytime she went to see her WhatsApp Story thing my GF went "I dont understand how you can go party every weekend or Drink" Anyway she got back in touch with that Friend which was alright. She doesnt have much friends apart from the ones I introduced to her. So we kind of cooled down after all that fight stuff and got back together (still havent seen her since the Vacation)Yesterday she played Videogames with her Female friend from school that she got in touch with again. With them were some guys, and some girls. So new people they played for half the day and decided they want to meet up on saturday for Cinema.I asked her why she didnt ask me if I wanna come too and that i would like to meet her friends and know who shes hanging around with.She said that i wouldnt like those people because theyre the typical party and drinking guys.I said that i would like to decide that for myself and why she doesnt want me to meet them.She just said "Id just like to have a group of friends that you dont know and that doesnt know you"And i was like "What why?" I didnt understand why she would a group of friends not know her boyfriend?She then said "I doesnt want you to be part of that part of my life."And that hit different.She couldnt really give me a reason for it. I just argued that im her boyfriend and that i would like to know who shes hanging around with and get to know them better.That statement kinda raised my suspicion and I talked to a friend about it. She said a relationship should be as inclusive as possible - because you are a couple - . TLDR: Girlfriend [F20] of almost 2 Years doenst want me [M23] to meet her new friend group containing Guys and Girls alike.States she doesnt want me to be part of that part of her life and that she wants a group of friends that doesnt know me. Cant really tell why. I really dont know what to do now. Should i just leave it there? Do you think she should introduce me to them? Do you think shes right here? Thanks for your help in advance! Edit: I did introduce her to most of my friends and we are doing stuff on a regular basis where she is always welcome and included. If you have any questions id gladly answer then in the comments.