Sir, your assertion that someone is blocked for "revenge" is silly. People block you because you have either done something that insulted, demeaned or disrespected them, or because they no longer wish to communicate with you (having met someone more suitable) and don't know how to end things without drama. Men get blocked most often for saying inappropriate things, sending inappropriate cringy pictures, or making inappropriate requests of women which are just flat out disgusting. Blocking is safer especially for women, as many men do not take rejection well - even if from a complete stranger on a dating app and will act stupid. Rather than engage him, the women just deuce out and block him. That is not going to change no matter how much you don't like it.
Your article expresses the belief that you are OWED an explanation of why someone doesn't want to be bothered with you, and OWED the opportunity to disagree with their position via an algorithm or personal intervention. Contrere mon frere. No one on a dating app owes you JACK. Guys with your mentality need to get over yourselves and learn how to move on gracefully like a G. When men feel entitled and whine about being blocked, its really not sexy and women cringe at dealing with such fellows. Instead, men need to consider what they did or said to motivate a woman to block them! Then stop doing or saying those things.
I strongly suggest you rethink your position and your belief that you deserve ANYTHING from a stranger on an app. Understand that the entire concept of a dating app swiping based on someone's face alone is nothing sensible anyway.
Get offline and go to events this summer. Meet young ladies in person and have fun engaging conversations with them in real life. Talk, laugh, hold hands, stare into each others eyes, share your strengths and weaknesses, and really get to KNOW people offline in the real world. That is how humans are meant to socialize, not over the phone or via a stupid app.
The Rising Trend of 'Revenge Blocking' in Dating Apps
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Sir, your assertion that someone is blocked for "revenge" is silly. People block you because you have either done something that insulted, demeaned or disrespected them, or because they no longer wish to communicate with you (having met someone more suitable) and don't know how to end things without drama. Men get blocked most often for saying inappropriate things, sending inappropriate cringy pictures, or making inappropriate requests of women which are just flat out disgusting. Blocking is safer especially for women, as many men do not take rejection well - even if from a complete stranger on a dating app and will act stupid. Rather than engage him, the women just deuce out and block him. That is not going to change no matter how much you don't like it.
Your article expresses the belief that you are OWED an explanation of why someone doesn't want to be bothered with you, and OWED the opportunity to disagree with their position via an algorithm or personal intervention. Contrere mon frere. No one on a dating app owes you JACK. Guys with your mentality need to get over yourselves and learn how to move on gracefully like a G. When men feel entitled and whine about being blocked, its really not sexy and women cringe at dealing with such fellows. Instead, men need to consider what they did or said to motivate a woman to block them! Then stop doing or saying those things.
I strongly suggest you rethink your position and your belief that you deserve ANYTHING from a stranger on an app. Understand that the entire concept of a dating app swiping based on someone's face alone is nothing sensible anyway.
Get offline and go to events this summer. Meet young ladies in person and have fun engaging conversations with them in real life. Talk, laugh, hold hands, stare into each others eyes, share your strengths and weaknesses, and really get to KNOW people offline in the real world. That is how humans are meant to socialize, not over the phone or via a stupid app.