Greatwolf

Be careful about what you pick up on TV, you have to remember that most times what you see is for "entertainment" value. Also, the girl on TV isn't the girl you're with and you aren't taking into consideration that you know absolutely nothing about the girl from "Blind Date."

That's very true but I have read on another site, forgot where, that girls doesn't like it when guys have to ask for girl's approval to kiss them.

and to respond to elila's question of how guys get that idea. Well it's simply because of the above. Asking the simple question 'can I kiss you?' and being direct doesn't really work. Also considering that girls tend to do a lot of their communication through their body language that hair test Marker's suggested obviously seems more practical.

Any questions?

*raises hand* me me! I got a question.

After I paid her one, I would make a point of ignoring her for a short while. Acting like she does not exist may not be needed, but you should make her think there is something different in how you perceive her. If you chase and chase, then you will chase her away. You need to give a little, then be aloof.

I kind of understand this point but how would you do it? Can you give a hypothical situation to illustrate this? I've read double your dating btw and they make a point of this in there as well. You don't want to shower the girl with too much attention or you come off as being needy. I could really use some more examples on driving home this point though.

Tell her you have fun, enjoy, like or whatever, talking with her. Watch and see how she reacts. A good reaction, eye contact, etc., and continue to he next thing, which is to tell her that maybe you should do it more often. Now the key thing to watch is her body language. A no you stop and a yes, you just ask her out.

What are some typical body language to take note on to know if it's a yes or a no?

Thanks

All very good points but it's easier said then done. I also happen to be a shy person myself and my social skills leaves a lot to be desired. My idea of fun is sitting in front of the computer most of the day programming and working on games. So someone like me, how would you suggest I start applying your tips?

Thanks