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  1. Thank you all so much. I always know where to go when I need a swift kick into reality.
  2. Good advice. I have a lot of life situations that I've put on the back burner to keep my attention totally focused on him. I haven't been getting the same in return. Just alot of disappointment and anxiety.
  3. Thank you! Yes, I took alot away from that last thread. Too bad it didn't stick with me. Maybe this time it will!
  4. Honestly, I have no idea what goes on when I leave. I know he works two jobs, so that keeps him busy. I can't help feeling like I've been made a fool of.
  5. I know, he will do the same thing, make me feel like it's just my insecurity. I'm not sure what my next move is. It's disappointing he's not who I thought he was.
  6. Thank you Holly. I have made my whole world about this guy and have distanced myself from most everything else. Big mistake!
  7. Bingo! I am very forthcoming with my feelings, very affectionate and look for the same in return. It's not there. I could send him a three paragraph text about how I feel and all I get back is "Thank you honey". So, Bluecastle, you hit it squarely on the head. I'm looking for validation anywhere I can. Not a good recipe for a relationship is it?
  8. Last conversation we had today was over the phone about this. He had to get ready for work. He was apologizing for upsetting me. He said he would call before he left for work so we can discuss it -- and of course he never called.
  9. I posted that before I saw some of the posts. I appreciate your input, but ease up a bit. I'm upset enough as it is.
  10. Yep, that's me in real life. And, thank you. I have never made good choices when it comes to men. I have no idea why. It's almost like I feel like I want to shame him into being truthful with me so he can feel like a piece of for playing me -- and then I can have a melt down over being hurt.
  11. Last week when we were discussing it, I told him I felt like he didn't want anyone knowing we were together. That set him off and he got really pissed off, then went silent and refused to speak to me. It was the first time I ever saw him get like that. And, I agree, if he loves me like he says he does, he should be proud -- like I am. He's a huge part of my life right now. Why would I not want to share that?
  12. Honestly, I don't know why I'm allowing this. It is pathetic that I have so little self worth.
  13. So, no one here feels like he's hiding something -- just me being insecure? Maybe I should note at least twice he has had his relationship all over Facebook with pictures, etc. So, it can't be that he's too private. I saw the pictures and the comments. Why so different for me?
  14. I'm not sure if he is or not. I'm sure I do need counseling if I'm willing to still put up with this . It makes me unhappy and even more insecure. Also, I just enjoy Facebook reconnecting with friends, seeing what other people are up to.
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