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  1. I want to thank all the productive advice and commentary that has been provided here. Taking your suggestions, along with some personal friend's thoughts.. I have decided that it would be best to cut my losses and extract the lessons learned from this relationship. I clearly have some work to do in the realm of communication and honesty. Communicating frankly, early and often is the key lesson learned. I'm certain that this experience has helped me grow and that I can come into my next relationship as a stronger person and partner. I will forever be sorry about betraying her t
  2. Honestly.. trolling is not helpful.
  3. I can only think that she either got into my phone or was on it herself. I think the former is more likely.
  4. To be fair, I want a partner too, but I want the full package. No excuse on my ***ty actions though.
  5. Hello, I, a 33 year old male, got dumped recently by my 27 female now ex girlfriend recently. We had been dating for 8 months in total. Here's the skinny from start to finish: The first 4 months of dating were great. We started off in June of 2020 right in the middle of the pandemic. She is very cute, sweet and has a nice body. In the beginning, we would text often, go out on dates and generally had a really good time together. She, being 26 at the time, was recently out of school and in the work force living at her parents house in a town about 30 minutes away. During this period we
  6. I agree - There is nothing about her that screams mentally ill, nor would I assume it. I mean, during the 'break up' conversation initiated by her earlier, I did tell her that I had feeling for her, so she did know I was interested. But in regards to the silence and online dating profile thing, I haven't aired those feelings out with her yet. Bringing that up is the mature thing to do. In fact, oddly enough, the last 2 days she has been texting me very frequently, and just now asked If I wanted to grab a drink. I will take her up on that, and bring that up. The interesting part is that
  7. Hello not-a-loners! Here's my situation, could use some advice, as I think I've become a bit emotional and it's clouding my judgement. Over the summer I met up with a good friend, female, from college that I haven't seen in 6 years. She's from way out of town and I saw her on Bumble. I shot her a text about meeting up before she goes back to Alaska and we went out for a drink. We had a lot of fun on the 'date'. A couple of days goes by and she texts me that she had a lot of fun and she was interested in getting to know me better as she is planning on moving back at some point in the next
  8. Everyone. I can't thank you enough for your input. Your insights have been incredibly helpful. It has made me feel more confident in myself both in my conduct and character. I have learned a lot from this short relationship, and I believe it will help me make more informed choices in the future, and keep me focused on what I truley want out of a partner. Take care!
  9. Hello - Just dumped a girl because of her bipolar disorder. Please read. About me - 30, great career, own house, financially stable, and... I have herpes. I'm very responsible about it, always disclosing, and I take medication and wear protection, eat healthy, never had an outbreak, never given it to anyone. Previously, about 4 months ago, I left an emotionally abusive ex that suffered from depression, I tried to make it work but it was just so intense. About her - 32, own apartment, decent job, history of not having a stable career, bipolar, suicidal past, emotionally distant mother, hi
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