well, thank you for suggesting me to call. First of all, I hv no problem without him NEAR becoz the fact that I am actually in a LDR also he is MARRIED so I shouldn't hv expected anything too much.
I understand the damage of my bad temper and I did read those anger management books almost every time AFTER I made a booboo (scolded or yelled at him badly) In fact, I regretted every single time aftr I did that to him even b4 I found my book....and of coz it's always too late.
I get angry easily when I didn't see him online. I often say and do stuff to him (scold at him in the email) and I later regret. I am sick and tired of repeating the same crap really and I hate myself for not being able to control myself and hurt his feelings constantly even tho I always call and extend my apology to him or email him the nxt day. The WORST thing is that every single times when he got the call from me. He ALWAYS stay calm, talk to me in his usual tone and never bring up the mistake I made. (Does anyone knows that feeling was?? I felt even MORE guilty becoz he's so nice to me even tho I treated him so nasty!)
I don't mind calling him at all and offer him any apology becoz I am those type of ppl who would admit the mistake and apologise quickly and I KNOW I am always easily be forgiven. He knows very well this problem has been bothering me a lot and he always put up with me and everytime I ask for a break up (yes...I always ask for break up when I was mad at him....so shame of myself!) he always say I understand you, and I will give u time, I knw its tough to change someone in a short period of time but I will give you time and I am sure you will change it gradually and remember, u hv to overcome your weaknessess for yourself but not for anyone. There were times I sincerely asked for a break up becoz I felt really shamed hurting him contantly but he always tell me that he doesn't want a break up and he will never leave me and he knows me very well thereforeeee he can handle it. Just kept explaining to me that I hv to face my problem instead of staying away and that's just a way avoiding my problem and I should learn to control my emotion and don't let it control me.
Sorry this reply is really long but I just want you guys to understand how nice a bf I got and how nasty a gf I am.
Can anyone give me any advises please? I really love him and I hv no intention to leave him and I am sure he loves me too but WHAT TO DO to control my temper? Please help. I really DO need you guys help! Thanks a lot!