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thanks GMSea97 i think i might go with your suggestion thanks again

i really don't know why not in a year

I use to write on here little more than a year ago, now im in the US Navy, going through my school, and will soon be graduating (in june), Im happy with where my life is and I have a girlfriend I am hopelessy in love with, a week after I graduate is the exact date that i left to join the Navy, and we shared a dance that day, and i was thinking about going to the same spot and sharing the same dance again and then proposing to her.

We both want to get married but we want to wait four years, (for her to graduate from college) im 19 and she is 18. I think it would be a great idea to propose at that moment but im not quite sure if that is too early, yes she would have just graduated high school. so i don't know if i should wait or not.

Any comments would be greatly appreciated.

thankyou

well see i plan on showing her my side when i give it to her on christmas and tell her she will get on our wedding day, plus that is 5 years from now

ok here is my debate on which i should do, i am having this bracelet custom made for christmas for my girlfriend, it is a gold heart charm it splits into two, and one side has my initials, birthstone, and half of the words "Together Forever" and her side has her initials, birthstone, and the other have of togeather forever, and it splits down the middle so i can give her her side at christmas and my side when we get married, the question is when i should give it to her, either when were alone, or with her family, see it would be nice in private, but she loves her family, and it would be nice if they could share the moment with us, any advice on the problem

i love her with all my heart and always will

thanks randy i might do that

thats a really good idea randy, but then should i give her the bear and necklace the day before i leave or sooner than that

well the first time my girlfriend and i went on a date it was fun we had a great evening and as i was getting ready to leave we were sitting in my car just looking at each other and i really wanted to kiss her, and i kinda just looked at her and we slowly got closer and we kissed, so the moral of this story is when the time is right it will happen, and just one thing, only do it if you really want to other wise she will kick the holy crap out of you

ok chai714 here is another thing i just thought of, my sister's husband is in the national guard, and when he was deployed he gave her a little teddy bear that she could remember him by when he was gone, and my sister thought that meant more to her than the other give he got her. so i have a little navy teddy bear im going to give her the day before i leave, so do you think i should give the necklace to her that same day or sooner than that just so she doesn't feel bombarded with gifts

ok here is my problem, five months ago i met the girl of my dreams, she is what i have been looking for all my life, i love everything about her, she is beautiful both on the inside and the outside. and it is all going perfect the only problem is i leave for navy boot camp in a week and a half. her birthday is right in the middle of my boot camp, so i got her a nice necklace for her birthday. and i would like some advice on wether i should give it to her before i leave or if i should give it to her parents and have them give it to her on her birthday, another option is give it to MY parents and they said they would give it to her on her birthday. i kinda want to see the look on her face, i don't know if giving it to her now would be too soon for her birthday

any tips or help would be appreciated thanks

DN i don't want to find someone else ever, and i say that several times in my letter. She knows that too. I just want her to be the happiest she could possibly be

Ok so in less than 2 months i will be leaving for the Navy. My girlfriend and I are really close, and we will miss each other alot when i am gone. So for the last couple weeks i have been working on a goodbye letter. Its not a goodbye i had a fun time, were breaking up letter. Its a goodbye letter saying how much she means to me, and that i never knew what love truly was, and how i always want to be with her. we have talked before about if we meet someone else or something happens and we think we have grown to far apart. so in this letter i told her if she does find someone who makes her happier than i ever could, to go ahead and take the chance with that person. because i truly want what is best for her, and for her to always to be happy.

So my question is to all the ladies out there. if you got a letter like this which way would you take it. 1. That i don't want you to really find someone else. or 2. go ahead and find someone else who makes you happier

shysoul that is a great deal about right before i leave i think i will do that thanks

ok so my girlfriend and i are truly in love, we have told each other that we love each other very much and that we want to be togeather forever and we truly mean it. so here is my idea we have our high school prom coming up this saturday night (im a senior and she is a junior), and i was thinking about making a request for her about the song from lonestar called "im already there" but on this cd i have it has a special version of it where they have the families of soldiers in iraq talking about how much they miss their family members, i will be leaving for boot camp for the navy on june 22nd, so i think this song is very fitting. For you people who have never heard "I'm already there" it deals with a father who is very away from home, and all he wants to do is be with his wife for ever in her mind and her heart. We have said we want to stay togeather even though we will be away from each othere at least until christmas.

So the question is do you think it is a good idea about the special version of "i'm already there" or is this a stupid and sappy idea thanks for any help

ps here is the song lyrics for you who still don't get the meaning of the song

He called her on the road

From a lonely cold hotel room

Just to hear her say

I love you one more time

And when he heard the sound

Of the kids laughing

In the background

He had to wipe away

A tear from his eye

A little voice came

On the phone

And said

"Daddy when you coming home"

He said the first thing

That came to his mind

I'm already there

Take a look around

I'm the sunshine in your hair

I'm the shadow on the ground

I'm the whisper in the wind

I'm your imaginary friend

And I know I'm in your prayers

Oh I'm already there

She got back on the phone

Said I really miss you darling

Don't worry about the kids

They'll be alright

Wish I was in your arms

Lying right there beside you

But I know that I'll be

In your dreams tonight

And I'll gently kiss your lips

Touch you with my fingertips

So turn out the light

And close your eyes

I'm already there

Don't make a sound

I'm the beat in your heart

I'm the moonlight shining down

I'm the whisper in the wind

And I'll be there

Until the end

Can you feel the love

That we share

Oh I'm already there

We may be a

Thousand miles apart

But I'll be with you

Wherever you are

I'm already there

Take a look around

I'm the sunshine in your hair

I'm the shadow on the ground

I'm the whisper in the wind

And I'll be there until the end

Can you feel the love

That we share?

Oh I'm already there

Oh I'm already

There

does anyone out there think that i am just over reacting on this whole situation

thanks for the tips richgabe maybe i'll try some of those ideas out.

discordant_verse, i do things that are sweet, and romantic as much as i can, she is really my first girlfriend, except middle school girlfriends but all i did was walk them to class, so i don't know a whole lot of things to do, i did take her out for chinese on our 2 month anniversary because she loves chinese and things like that all the time

o i c where your coming from DN, i'll admit the most special time i said "i love you" was the first time i said it, but it still has a lot of meaning to me and to her, and she says it right back to me alot also

thanks richgabe, i know that im only 18 but i didn't think i could be this happy with anyone i would meet, i always hoped that i would find someone like her but i didn't want to get hurt, because i have been hurt before. she is the same way she never thought she would find someone.

i was going out with my girlfriend for a month and a half when i said "i love you" and i didn't say it to get laid or anything i truly do love her. Since we have been going out we spend everyday talking before school, between classes, after school, and usually online after that. we weren't close at first but after 2 weeks we got really close really fast. and i have never been happier in my life.

So your problem might be that you haven't found that special person that you want to and can spend time with everyday and only love them more every time you see them

twelve how do you think i could push her away when i say "i love you" too much. Maybe its just me but i don't see how that could be a bad thing?

well richgabe i have never told anyone that i loved them before my girlfriend, and it is something that when i say it i mean it everytime. I just love spending time with her when ever i can. I can feel great just walking down the hall way, but when i see her nothing else matters. I feel 100% better no matter how good i already felt. so to answer your question i do mean i love you when i say "i love you" to her.

p.s. i also so goodbye at the end of a phone call or instant message

CarrieB123 i know that my parents love me very much, i just don't have the relationship like my girlfriend has with her parents where they say they love her everynight before she goes asleep

well DN she is the first person who i have truly had feelings for that has feelings for me back, we have so much in common, and we truly care about eachother. I just feel like saying "i love you" to her as much as i possibly can.

The girl that i have loved for the last couple months said something to me very odd the other day. We had just got done with supper and we were alone, I had said i love you to her 3 or 4 times already that night and like always she said it right back. Then after dinner i said i love you again and she said i love you too, but then she asked why i said i love you so much. I said "because that is the way i feel about you" Then she asked me if i needed to hear it from her because my parents don't say it and stuff like that. I said "no i just like saying it to you" after that we really didn't talk about it anymore, until later that night when i was talking to her online and she said "i love you" too me and i said "i love you too" and right after that she said "you know that i mean that right." i said that i did know it and i said that i love her to. She then said I truly do love you.

So my question is what is the deal with right after supper, am i saying "i love you" to her too much, or am i just making to big of a deal out of this?

Any tips out there?