sunehaa

i've recently gone thru a break up. my guy asserted that " we r incompatible". though he never realised of his over possessiveness on me...

its said that all individuals r unique ..no two ppl r alike . means no one is borned to be compatible with another. this compatibility is a 'rhythm' of interaction , devaloped among the couples for going on together.

thus proper efforts sud be made from both sides to maintain it ...right ?

how far is it justified to say "we r incompatible" without giving it a try to sustain it ?

when undue domination , stubbornness, lack of mutual understandings n trust strain the compatibility between a pair...how to overcome it ? wat sud be done ?

pals ...plzz help.

Love at first sight. Well thats something that has been said for a long long time. It starts with the eyes and ends with the heart.

But right now its just liking the person. Liking and loving are 2 differnet things. Love is like a slowly blooming flower. It takes it time 2 blossom.

Only time will tell wheather this liking turns into luv r just fizzels off.

isn't that abit insulting? I mean it feels like your saying "Join a club where the brainy peoples go because stupid ones aren't allowed!" Its sounds a bit discriminating to me.

 

Some people have a reason for why they aren't as intelligant as they should be.

hello friends,

thanks for all ur replies.

hey Laura Ashley , u might have misread my post...i m not discriminating among brainy n stupid females dear.

every individual does possess the brain. the terms 'Brainy' n 'Stupid' only implies to the relative extent , up to which we use our brain ie. intelligence .

now coming to my topic...

what i want is ...recognition n appreciation of one's personality , knowledge n intellect should matter more than just the outer 'looks'.

i want the same in my case ...but the biased attitude of the guys around me has disappointed me !

hence i've put up this issue for discussion ...to find everyone's view on this in general.

replies r quite encouraging so far...it shows, to some men the grey matters of a gal does matter , more than how she looks like.

thank u

Sunehaa

this is a welknown fact that good looks of a gal does matter to all guys, no matter even if that beauty is bit stupid ...but why so ? r they afraid of tackeling intelligent girls ? why r they hasitant in going out with an ordinary looking gal ? in the bewildering situations of practical life ...does a goodlooking gf helps more than an intelligent female friend?

hey buddy ,plzz ....help me out in clarifying these doubts...