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If they are true soulmates then ..no.

The word "soulmate" seems to get thrown around alot...like the word "love". Alot of people tend to misuse these words without really knowing what they mean.

I have known someone who married a guy she was not in love with. Over time, she's grown to love him but she's still not IN LOVE with him. It's been a messy situation from the start. Of course, he does not know how she feels. She still thinks that maybe one day she'll just wake up and those feelings will be there, but she knows..it just doesn't work that way.

(she = me)

My mother once told me "Finding true love is not about finding someone you can live with..it's about finding someone you can't live without."

A soulmate isn't something you can define. It is something you must feel. You can debate and anaylze all you want, but in the end it is simply something that you have to know.

I agree with this 100%.

In a nutshell, the Alchemist is about not being afraid of following your dreams...the story itself is about a boy who sets out on a journey from Spain to the deserts of Egypt to find a buried treasure. Along the way, he meets a gypsy, a "king", and an alchemist who try to help point him in the right direction. He's also faced with many obstacles and has to find it within himself to overcome these obstacles and continue searching for his treasure.

One of my most favorite books that I would recommend to anyone would be

The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho

Now I don't know if that's the kind of book you're looking for but it's definitely a good read...not difficult to read and not extremely long. I hope you enjoy it...sorry I couldn't be of anymore help.