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I think that communication and understanding are key!

That's what we're about at my link removed

When you have a woman that is thinking that she has found prince charming, but a man who thinks he has found Jenna Jameson... without communication, there will be a problem.

Women have a strong desire for sex, and you are right Mr. Goodman... if you show a woman that she can trust you fully, she will show you (and herself) things that she never knew she was capable of.

The breakdown that I see is that a lot of women begin to mistake themselves as sexual objects only... they begin to utilize sex as their only weapon... their only "control" over men.

That is our fault (men), as well as the education women have received on sex. If you read this post... please participate.

Of course they do!

You know, the double standard is pretty ridiculous.

Men are being strong, thorough men that are sewing their

wild oats because they have a healthy sex drive, but women

are looked at as "ladies of the night" because they desire

sex the same way.

This is really backwards thinking, and what's more

is the fact that I'm a MAN. To take it even further,

I LOVE women... beautiful, intelligent, spunky women.

What do you think the double standard is all about?

I think that there are a lot of different aspects to it.

There are many women (I know a lot of them personally) that

have very strong sexual desires that they want to let loose.

The thing is, they don't just want the physical act.

They also want to embrace the mental and emotional feelings

that come along with a healthy sex drive. Isn't this the

same thing men want (or should want)?

I don't care what man you talk to... most men have

been with a woman that has 'rocked their boat'. The

powerful effect that that woman had on that man was

not purely physical... it couldn't be.

It was a total mind, body, and soul experience.

The same thing applies to women. The only difference is

that women DO naturally tie the mental and emotional into

the physical act, while many men are not that advanced yet.

In my opinion, this is what the problem is.

Think about it... it seems to be expected in society that

men can do things that make us look enormously stupid and

disrespectful, but we are "just being men" when we do it.

Many men in today's world think that they are being a man

because they are able to get a woman pregnant, but aren't

man enough to stay around and handle the responsibility for

the long haul because they now think the girl was being a

"ho" for sleeping with him and getting pregnant.

This doesn't make sense!

At the same time, a woman may make a mistake and get pregnant

by a man that is no good because she truly wanted to raise a

child and start a family, but she is now looked at as trash.

Here's the deal:

Women... there is nothing wrong with having a strong sex drive.

However, when you begin to exploit it in a way that makes sex

your only attribute, you will be used, abused, and tossed to

the side.

Don't accept anything less than a man who has the same

kind of passions that burn in you. If you want the total package,

but are only getting part of it from your boyfriend or husband,

is it really the best situation for YOU?

Probably not.

Men... women have strong sex drives too! It is probably stronger

than most men because it is more developed, and it's been supressed

for so long. Mind, body, and soul is involved. That means that it

is something to handle gently and passionately, instead of frivalously

and with no regard.

Get in touch with your emotional sexual side, and you will

find that you are having better relationships, and better sex.

Lets make our relationships last!