Of course they do!
You know, the double standard is pretty ridiculous.
Men are being strong, thorough men that are sewing their
wild oats because they have a healthy sex drive, but women
are looked at as "ladies of the night" because they desire
sex the same way.
This is really backwards thinking, and what's more
is the fact that I'm a MAN. To take it even further,
I LOVE women... beautiful, intelligent, spunky women.
What do you think the double standard is all about?
I think that there are a lot of different aspects to it.
There are many women (I know a lot of them personally) that
have very strong sexual desires that they want to let loose.
The thing is, they don't just want the physical act.
They also want to embrace the mental and emotional feelings
that come along with a healthy sex drive. Isn't this the
same thing men want (or should want)?
I don't care what man you talk to... most men have
been with a woman that has 'rocked their boat'. The
powerful effect that that woman had on that man was
not purely physical... it couldn't be.
It was a total mind, body, and soul experience.
The same thing applies to women. The only difference is
that women DO naturally tie the mental and emotional into
the physical act, while many men are not that advanced yet.
In my opinion, this is what the problem is.
Think about it... it seems to be expected in society that
men can do things that make us look enormously stupid and
disrespectful, but we are "just being men" when we do it.
Many men in today's world think that they are being a man
because they are able to get a woman pregnant, but aren't
man enough to stay around and handle the responsibility for
the long haul because they now think the girl was being a
"ho" for sleeping with him and getting pregnant.
This doesn't make sense!
At the same time, a woman may make a mistake and get pregnant
by a man that is no good because she truly wanted to raise a
child and start a family, but she is now looked at as trash.
Here's the deal:
Women... there is nothing wrong with having a strong sex drive.
However, when you begin to exploit it in a way that makes sex
your only attribute, you will be used, abused, and tossed to
the side.
Don't accept anything less than a man who has the same
kind of passions that burn in you. If you want the total package,
but are only getting part of it from your boyfriend or husband,
is it really the best situation for YOU?
Probably not.
Men... women have strong sex drives too! It is probably stronger
than most men because it is more developed, and it's been supressed
for so long. Mind, body, and soul is involved. That means that it
is something to handle gently and passionately, instead of frivalously
and with no regard.
Get in touch with your emotional sexual side, and you will
find that you are having better relationships, and better sex.
Lets make our relationships last!