Hey no need to be sorry at all, I genuinely feel for you. Sorry that I triggered all those horrid memories for you.
My situation in s%£t and we've brought it on by ourselves- I suppose this pain in kalma for me
I feel for you and sorry re your dad and aunts passing .
I get this has turned your whole life upside down and i am sorry for that.
No situations are the same and I'm not proud