I agree. Though we did have a romantic night tonight and I could tell she was feeling close to me, I really wanted to try having sex with her, but I didn’t bother. Figured it would backfire. I need to just focus on making her feel safe and comfortable daily.
UPDATE: After I made this post from our basement, she calls me on my cell and tells me she misses me. I said, “Is this a booty call?” She said, no she has to take a shower but isn’t going to tonight because of the storm. She says anyone could call me for a booty call, but not many would say they miss me like she does. I know I sound like a dog now, mentioning sex to her, but I can’t help it. I didn’t get mad or anything by her response, just said I miss her too. So, she can get all lovey dovey with me on the couch, but is not interested in sex ever again I fear. Maybe I’m just moving too fast at this point. I can’t expect much. I know sex is a big deal to women. Don’t get me wrong, I DO enjoy the closeness with her, and the emotional bonding, but I guess jump to conclusions that we will barely ever have sex again.