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  1. What? I only deleted him the first time and he sent me tons on messages. Now I blocked him and I haven't unblocked him because I don't want him to message me ever again. You need to learn how to read.
  2. As I said, it was not like I was aming at matching with a guy who lives in another city. I have the distance set on 16 km. We both were wondering how we ended up matching. Honsetly, I didn't ask for advice on how to meet guys nor did I ask if I only should date local guys. Its also my choice if I awant to try dating guys that live a bit further away. My question was if I should remove him. I was a bit torn because I've deleted him once before and he accused me of causing drama and overreacting. Please, stick to the question.
  3. Nah, I don't think he had a gf or wife. Just because he acted like this doesn't mean that he had gf or a wife 😅. He was just childish and didn't know what he wanted. We both didn't know how our profiles showed up in the card deck on tinder. I don't mind dating guys who live in a different city because my country isn't big. Don't assume that everyone who post here live in the US. Taking a plane to the other siden of the country, takes only 2 hours and taking the bus from my city (the capital) to the west coast takes only 7 hours with a car. But, if you read what I wrote, I blocked him.
  4. He wanted to put the argument behind us but now he is ignoring me. When he said that he couldn't that weekend. I just wrote that it was fine with a smiley. If he actually cared then he would had said that we can meet in March but he didn't reply anything. At least, now he know that I don't want anything to do with him and that I didn't do this for attention.
  5. Well, yeah, I blocked him everywhere, so he won't be able to contact me. I blocked him because if I wouldn't had done it that he would had accused me again of causing drama and that I did it to get his attention...
  6. I have blocked him so he can't get in touch with me because last time he sent me tons of messages accusing me of causing drama. Now he knows I don't want any messages from him. I also blocked his number, so he can't call me. F*** him..
  7. Should I just delete him even though I've done it once before?
  8. I met a guy who lives in a different city and we met when he was on work trip, and we hit it off very well. He was supposed to come back the following week. We met and it went very well. When we said goodbye, he said that he's coming back in March, but if I want I can visit him before he comes back but we can talk about it. The next week (last week), I asked him and he said that he have to check his calendar the next day which was fine. I didn't hear anything from him then he sends me selfie of himself. Later I sent a snap to see if he was going to give me the dates. He just replied with emojis, so I asked if he had checked the calander. He gave me the dates and the only weekend I could was the weekend that he wasn't sure but he would get back to me. He didn't get back to me if he could that weekend. Whenever I would try to start a conversation, he would not reply, send me a one word answer or just reply with emojis. I felt that he didn't want to get to know me but only replying to be kind. On Friday I sent a messag asking if he would like to get to know more because I didn't feel like that. He opened the message right away but didn't reply to me in four hours but I saw that he was active. I was already having a bad day, so I sent him a message saying that I got my answer and good luck (I know that I might have overreacted). He got angry and wrote that if it's how I feel that way there is nothing to do about it. I sent him that good luck and I hope that he finds what is looking for. One hour later, he sends me tons of messages on messenger. We talk and agreed to have a phone conversation on Sunday. We agreed to put the argument behind us and he was going to check if he was available that weekend. However, he said that he doesn't know what he wants during the conversation. I added him back on Snapchat and Facebook. He hasn't sent me one snap since I added him back. He told me that he couldn't that weekend. I said that it was fine. He replied to one of my snapchat stories today which was of my dog. He really wants to meet my dog 🤷♀️ I sent him a snap which waited an hour to open and he didn't reply and I can see that he's active.
  9. Well, I’m not the prettiest woman out there and as I mentioned before, I’m still studying and do not have the best job and I’m couple of years younger than him, and he has two kids. I don’t think he would had taken me seriously anyway...
  10. Wow, do people still comment on this even after I wrote my last comment?? The reason why he had to rush off is because he only had couple of minutes before the train left and he had to wait two hours later for the next one. And it was getting pretty late. It wasn’t like I was sitting by myself. We walked together and when we were saying goodbye, he gave me a hug and said he has to catch the train and that we’ll talk later. I really don’t understand why people are still commenting on this after I said in my last comment that I’m going to leave him be...
  11. Thank you to those actually commented in order to help me! But as I wrote I’m just disappointed that he were preaching about not playing games and so on, but at the same time he’s sending mixed signals. I don’t need him to answer me just out politeness.. I know that I’m very insecure about my looks but I do understand that he wouldn’t go for me anyways. So I’m just going to leave him be. At least I wished him a happy birthday.
  12. Because we happened to match a day before I was leaving for my first vacation that lasted over a week, and I got home last week.
  13. Why do you and other people feel the need to be rude when someone is asking for an advice? It is not that hard to write a comment without sounding rude...
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