Lack of sex in Sex and Romance Posted January 19 He doesn’t know i know of his porn watching, i checked his phone, because i was actually concerned maybe he was being unfaithful but I really don’t think so. He watches Jerk mate, just women masterbating. I know he doesn’t masterbate because he says he hasn’t since he was a teen. Never enjoyed it. He has had a very active sex life his entire life and doesn’t enjoy masterbation. We have very similar work schedules so that is definitely not the problem. I leave pretty early, he lays asleep until i leave then he is right up. I guess i just need to have a talk with him. Maybe low T, who knows.