my boyfriend and i tried it for the first time the other day. i wasn't really psyched at the idea of it, but i've done my research, and i am comfortable with my sexuality and i know it can be pleasurable. So i eventually agreed to try it, for his sake. Be opened minded, ya know, 'cause who knows. It wasn't super painful, but I also didn't feel any pleasure from it. Also, that may have partially been from my mind not really being psyched, that I was just going along, not being interactive at all. But ok, we tried, kind of. BUT I ALSO ENDED UP HAVE A HUGE NEGATIVE EMOTIONAL RESPONSE.