Confusedgirl2

DAY #1

I'm ready, this is much needed! I promise not to respond to any emails, phone calls, text, emails or check his FB page or his friends FB Page. The only time I will is if it has to do with seperation of bills (BC we live together), getting his fridge (which should be done this week) and to meet face to face with my son to say bye and he loves him (which should be the week after next). This is going to be sooo hard; i might be in a different boat then others as I called off our wedding due to issues...ugh, very hard! I still love him just want him to stop the talk and walk the walk! Wish me luck!!!!

I failed, contacted him today...sent pictures of my sons first day of school....feel dumb now...ugh!!!!

Day 2

 

Did not send that song. Strangely enough, I dont have need to contact her as I know I did all I can to try and make things right. I do miss her however and am curious whether she will contact me. Part of me wonders whether I scared her with saying that this is it for me in last conversation. However, this was after a month or more of her sending mixed signals... also I am wondering whether I did wrong with contacting her a lot during first week after break up...some strange thoughts...

Good for you! Try not to think when she will call it will just hurt if she's dosent. Life is too short...maybe everytime you think of her you have to do 10 pushups?

I'm on day #2 also....we can do this!

Ah I forgot to mention that they ARE my friends and have contacted me (texting) in the recent past to ask how I am. But they're her closer friends and I still feel like my agenda is obvious when I call them as it's not what I did before we broke up. I'm just gonna stop and act nonchalant when they contact me. No harm in that.

 

Anyways, welcome! You're in the right place. Just remember, before you do anything silly just come here and ask us first!

Thank you!!

No, don't call the friends unless they are your friends as well and your intentions don't involve her...don't seek revenge it never turns out right...i'm going through the same things...easier said then done, but you can do this!

Day 1

 

I broke no contact yesterday as she said she wanted to talk about us. It turned out she is still confused and wants us to be apart so I regretted. Feel that it is really over this time and I really miss her. On top of it a personalised song which I ordered to be written for her as a gift for our anniversary was delivered to me today. I am really tempted to send it to her.

Don't do it!

DAY #1

I'm ready, this is much needed! I promise not to respond to any emails, phone calls, text, emails or check his FB page or his friends FB Page. The only time I will is if it has to do with seperation of bills (BC we live together), getting his fridge (which should be done this week) and to meet face to face with my son to say bye and he loves him (which should be the week after next). This is going to be sooo hard; i might be in a different boat then others as I called off our wedding due to issues...ugh, very hard! I still love him just want him to stop the talk and walk the walk! Wish me luck!!!!