Wow. Anon333, your post really touched me. Actually copied it and saved it.
Day 8 NC today. Spoke with mutual friend (his friend who became my friend). He said he tried to talk to my ex to find out what was going on. He said my ex kept saying he doesn't know his next step. That he kept saying he needs to clear his head. He probed further asking if he planned to start dating and all that but said my ex didn't give any definite answer. That he kept saying he didn't know. But that generally he sounded okay. I dunno if that's supposed to make me feel better or worse.
Now that he is deeply thinking, would the time away from him make him forget me? Arrrrgh! I hate this overanalysing.
This sounds positive to me. He's giving himself the time to work things out without committing to just rashly doing something.
THE NO CONTACT CHALLENGE, Part 2
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This sounds positive to me. He's giving himself the time to work things out without committing to just rashly doing something.