OrganicBalloon

Day 8

Had a busy day and it feels great. Nothing like a day filled with fun activities.

Day 7

I thought I was getting better but I saw a "recent event" listing when I signed in facebook and I started thinking of her. Then i started to miss her again. Should I remove her from my friends list on facebook? And what should I do with the stuff, "inanimate objects", that remind me of her.

Ignoring should only be used as a last resort. You want to heal from the break-up, it's too early for reconciliation. Ask him to not contact you again, and when you're ready you can contact him if you so choose.

 

Don't just cut him off randomly, this will only lead to confusion and more misery. If you really want to do NC, ask him to leave you be. If he then contacts you after that, you should ignore him until you have healed.

 

A goal without a plan is just a wish.

Day 6

Well when I started the NC I guess I did randomly cut off my ex randomly. Should I tell her whats going if she tries to contact me again since she did call me a few times already when I was on NC and I ignored it.

Day 5

Take a break and enjoy a long island.

I just need to find something to do in my life.

Day 4

Is it just me or does the days seem longer when you go on the NC challenge.

Day 3

Didn't think it was going to be this difficult. I guess the beginning is always difficult until you accept what is really going on. I want to call her just to see whats going on.

Day 29

 

Only today and tomorrow left... I had a setback yesterday due to a friends request, and I've spent today deciding on what to do. I unblocked her from facebook and accepted her myspace friends request (funny how she posted a "I can't live without you" song the day she sent it to me. I'll still wait until after my challenge is complete to contact her, but at this point I'm healed and I'm okay with her being there.

 

I'm okay because I feel indifferent, I don't care and I don't have any expectations, so I believe that that's a sign that I've moved on. It's weird befriending her because I cut her off emotionally a while ago, I gues NC has run it's course though.

 

I guess it feels good to finally have all of the power.

Woot! Your almost done. How does it feel to be so close to the finish line?

Day 2

She called me today and I ignored the call even though I wanted to call back. I wonder if I should tell her I'm doing the NC challenge so she won't bother me in the next 28 days. Good luck on all you challenges!

Day 1

My 2.5 yr relationship just ended about two weeks ago. For no reason my gf, who initiated the break up, decided to start talking to me on AIM (Aol Instant Messaging) since three days after the break up. I responded at first but now I noticed that its unhealthy and decided to start my challenge of no contact with her.

Edit: Btw I'm assuming that NC mean No contact, but what does LC mean? Sorry I'm new here.