hmazer311

There is some really good advice up there. I just don't understand why men need it so bad, and are willing to hurt thier wives/girlfriends for a daily dose of breasts. Am I fighting a losing battle?

I have been with my husband for almost 6 years now. We have a 3 year old and another one on the way. I started noticing his porn habit when I was pregnant the first time, and through the years he has been getting better about hiding it. But every once and a while he slips up and I find evidence on his computer. It seems like I have tried everything to get him to stop, we've made movies together and I took pictures of my self. This whole thing is a major blow to my self esteem, especially now that I am pregnant again. We really don't talk about his habit, we both try to avoid the conversation, but he knows that it hurts me. Am I in the wrong by letting it hurt so bad?