First off, thanks a lot for your insight. I think I speak for a lot of people when I say that you've been a big help.
My situation:
My ex, who I dated for over 8 months, left me about a few weeks ago. Now, she is official with someone new only about a 1-1.5 weeks after breaking up with me. This worries me because although he may be a rebound, I know he is a nice guy and he's got money too. However, he is only a college sophomore who lives in the dorms and she is a super senior.
She has been calling and texting me for the past few days. I decided not to answer any of them until today. Basically, she just asked if I was okay, so I sad "I'm fine" and she asked me I was mad, so I sad "No, I'm not mad" and if I was avoiding her, which I also replied "no" to. Then she asked me if I wanted to go with her and a mutual friend to get his haircut (we had planned to get our friend a new hairdoo while we were together) so I told her "maybe" and said I needed to go.
Now... my question is, am I better of not going with her? I feel that if I go, I would make it fun for us and maybe that would show what she's missing or something... however, if I don't go, I'm sure she would be pretty down about it, which I'm sure would make her miss me as well.
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Hey SuperDave,
First off, thanks a lot for your insight. I think I speak for a lot of people when I say that you've been a big help.
My situation:
My ex, who I dated for over 8 months, left me about a few weeks ago. Now, she is official with someone new only about a 1-1.5 weeks after breaking up with me. This worries me because although he may be a rebound, I know he is a nice guy and he's got money too. However, he is only a college sophomore who lives in the dorms and she is a super senior.
She has been calling and texting me for the past few days. I decided not to answer any of them until today. Basically, she just asked if I was okay, so I sad "I'm fine" and she asked me I was mad, so I sad "No, I'm not mad" and if I was avoiding her, which I also replied "no" to. Then she asked me if I wanted to go with her and a mutual friend to get his haircut (we had planned to get our friend a new hairdoo while we were together) so I told her "maybe" and said I needed to go.
Now... my question is, am I better of not going with her? I feel that if I go, I would make it fun for us and maybe that would show what she's missing or something... however, if I don't go, I'm sure she would be pretty down about it, which I'm sure would make her miss me as well.
Thanks!