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True but if there're problems whether or marriage or in the long term relationship, then you either talk it out or leave, why involve a thrid person, it solves nothing to the original problem, instead it adds more luggage into it.

yes I agree. Cheating is stupid.

What a minute, I thought you were against cheating on one of your post or did you just only referred that in men. If so then why would it seem justifiable for a woman to cheat while the man gets labeled?

 

Wow I almost forgot that this thread is 5 yrs. old, close to being 6 now. I guess the OP must have solve the issue with his wife by now and trust got regain if possible.

Hey there.

I do not think any cheating is justified. In a case where one cheats-they stay together-and then, the other cheats later on... there is really not much to say. They are both cheaters in that case. I'm not sexist; just female who's seen a lot. NO, I'm not suggesting she had a reason. It was more of a question for the OP.

It kind of seems like there is a part of you that feels her cheating is justified...(?) Maybe she was getting some kind of revenge or she's given up on monogamy.