aloneagain41

Though I know I won't contact him for fear of hearing his voice and almost crumbling inside, I do know that reading alot of the posts on here and seeing that a lot of the breakups are because of a specific issue that damaged the 2 people involved. I need to know where the posts are that show that someone who just is overwhelmed with life and missing his children and working insane hours, reliving the pain of his divorce through a friend who is now going through it and who feels he needs to end our (god i hate that word end) relationship in order for him to focus on him so he can get where he needs to be....does anyone have any insight as to whether this type of situations "ends" or whether they come back once they have regained a sense of self?

 

In short, don't do anything...give them space.....give them time....

 

 

 

REMEMBER THIS: If you do nothing....you cannot screw ANYTHING UP. If you do something....it could be the very thing that pushes them away even more than they already are.....I wish you all the best in getting what you need and deserve.....Just be honest with yourself NO MATTER what..

 

 

--Thanks Guys,

 

SuperDave71

I know what you are saying is right and it has been a very short time for me only 4 days now and I feel like everything you said...and I feel that if I don't make the first move it will never be made. But he broke up with me and I need to accept and respect that. I just wonder how friggin long I will wait hoping that by NC he will really miss me enough to come back....I know there is no answer to that and that is what is killing me!