Fox1198

Fox, I would envision how you are going to feel once you've deleted - do you think you'll be able to get out there and try some new things? Or will you start panicking?

I'm not panicking at all. I'm just wondering if I should block her on MSN, or just delete her. Maybe I'm over-analyzing this... but I think by blocking her, it will make it obvious to her that I'm hurt by her, at the same time she will know that I'm gone from her life and she won't know what I'm up to (not that she cares).

Should I or shouldn't I?

Do you guys think I should block her on my MSN, or just remove her from my buddy list? Blocking her would mean she can't see me online anymore obviously.

there are no guarantees that you will find the perfect girl - but there is a guarantee that you won't be alone forever. It's just the way the universe spins - it always draws people together. Especially if we stay social and exposed to the public.

That's an awesome thought! It just cheered me up a wee bit. Thanks!

i wrote one, and sent it to her as her testimonials

she erased it in less than 24 hours

nice huh?

Testimonials? You mean to her myspace/facebook comments? I would not post it for public viewing. It would be a direct email.

Do you guys think it's a good idea to write a final farewell letter?

The idea of writing letters and not sending them is great. It gives you an avenue of release, without the consequences!

I actually did that a couple of times. I'm gonna start writing a private journal for myself.

Ok my last communication was 3/4 via email. She hasn't replied. This is the beginning of the end. I'm not going to let her affect my happiness NO MORE!