Did you give up on the idea of "Choosing the one"?
I am 33 and have been in 4 LTR's. My first one started when I was 16 and have recently ended the last one with my daughter's father. I ended them all because they were not the one.
Did you go on with life and have an attitude that live for the moment and not look for the future during your new relationship??
I am not the type to think this way. If I am dating someone, it is because I see the potential, and realize the only way to find out is by spending time with them.
Basically, what changed after the long relationship in you view about long term relationship?
Nothing really changed my view on LTR's. What I took away from it was a greater understanding of what I need in a partner and how I need to be in the relationship.
What did you say to yourself that u would not do?
Move so fast. Make sure I would be treated right.
Did u stop looking into the future with your new boyfriend? or did you just live it day by day?
Yes, only once I realized that there was no future.
Did you know that by doing that it creates insecurity in the relationship?
Yes, I knew the relationship was breaking down
Was the "new" relationship better because if the change in attitude.
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I am 33 and have been in 4 LTR's. My first one started when I was 16 and have recently ended the last one with my daughter's father. I ended them all because they were not the one.
I am not the type to think this way. If I am dating someone, it is because I see the potential, and realize the only way to find out is by spending time with them.
Nothing really changed my view on LTR's. What I took away from it was a greater understanding of what I need in a partner and how I need to be in the relationship.Move so fast. Make sure I would be treated right.
Yes, only once I realized that there was no future.
Yes, I knew the relationship was breaking down
No.