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Hey Everyone,

I am so far on no contact Ive lost count. It has to be 3 months at this point. I still feel lonely sometimes but really am getting better each and everyday. I no longer desire to have her back and have no desire to speak to her ever again. For those who are fresh out keep up the good fight and things will get better. Just do whats best for you. Good luck.

I am still no contact, I stopped counting the days but it has been about a week. I decided I just want to forget about her so I figure not counting the days and getting out there and doing stuff will be best for me. I have a few dates lined up in the next few days which is nice. I still do think about her but I only think about the bad. I do get annoyed that she is in a supposedly happy relationship but hey what can I do. I figure what goes around comes around and by the time it does I wont care anyway. Focusing on myself has been the best medicine so far. I am still having trouble sleeping but thats cuz im insane anyways haha. Cheers everyone.

i still think about her but I had an awesome weekend. I am slowly regaining my confidence just talking casually to other girls. I am just trying to learn as much as I can at this point. have a great day.

day 3 and feeling really good. I got 2 numbers at the bar last night but who knows if they were too drunk to remember haha. I should have gone nc so long ago then I wouldnt be in this situation.

day 2 woohoo hahaha.

Still have her in my thoughts a lot. I feel pretty angry at the moment. I really hope this anger and vengefulness will pass. Is it normal or am I just insane? The good news is that I have never been so motivated in my life. I will be doing a competition in 3 months and what great motivation this situation has been especially in the gym.

day 1 starting tomorrow

just sick of bs and being put on the back burner. I want to go at least 3 months. so heres to no contact.....

Day 6

Somewhat depressed today over the situation. What bugs me the most is that the new man she is with is 9 years older than me and has a nice house and everything. I am fresh out of college and in my first job. I know I should not compare myself to him but I wonder how I ever could compete. I guess when I am 33 then I could haha. I also wonder how she can look him in the face after cheating on him but I know that is there problem not mine. i am still focusing on bettering myself. Mind, Body, & Soul, just taking it day by day.

Day 5

Hey All,

Happy Mother's Day to any mothers out there.

Well the ex has been on the mind a lot today, I find Sundays are always the worst. I cant wait to start this week thought just so I can begin to get my head back in order. I have been thinking a lot and am happy to be able to improve myself and find a better suited woman, but I still miss her.... or maybe what we had. Anyone that has been thru this how long did it take you to finally put everything behind you? I cant wait until that day haha. Well have a great night.

Chris

day 4

just got back from the gym and going to a nice bbq.

She has been in my thoughts but I feel pretty good. She is the one who lost someone who would have been there for her thru thick and thin that is my take on it. Cant wait for the day she does not enter my thoughts.

Have a great day all.

New here and on day 3 of no contact...

what a great idea, unfortunately I have been sick and home from work but it has been a great time of reflection and next week I am ready to get the ex out of my system and become a better person than I was before I met her.