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i didnt say good looks are the deciding factor. in fact somewhere in that heaping bulk of a quote you gave i said explicitly "personality is the make or break'er" i ment that looks get you started, and your personality is the deal maker. to answer you about teh ugly guys with hot girls? im sure everyone of those ugly guys was with that hot girl in some sort of way way before they were in a relationship.i.e. best friends, brother/sister of best friend, even something simple as they helped them when they were in need. those are different situations completely. god its like people post reply's without even thinking about them. loves doesnt just happen. you have to MAKE it happen. and those "ugly guys who are with the hot women" MADE it happen. stop making excuses, and go get it done.

Is that what you were doing with your post[rant] thinking? ''Go get it done'' wow that's an insightful response,care to elaborate on how someone does that? I also thought in your original post you said that if someone is ugly then they are destined to be with an unattractive partner,yet now you claim they can go get it done.Quite a contradiction .

You are not being honest,you are venting.People can pick up on a person's demeanor a mile away,along with there physical package.If what you say is true how do you explain unattractive men hooking up with good looking women all of the time?Good looks help but they are not the deciding factor.

Sorry but I don't agree with this.Your attitiude and demeanor as just as important as your physical package.No one is going to want to talk to you if you look like you are ready to kill someone.Many good looking guys feel that they are unattractive because they don't do well with women but in most cases it is usually a psychological issue not a physical one that keeps them from success.

How do you know if you are attractive?

 

You ask your friend to go to a stranger and ask them what they think of you.

 

Just a suggestion As others have mentioned,looks are highly subjective.Because that one stranger doesn't think you are attractive ,would that make you unattractive?Of course not!

I'm not sure I agree with your theory.All things being equal[good social network,good environment for meeting women ,good social skills] then yes the kind of things you mention will happen to one.However,I know many attractive people of both sexes who have difficulties meeting someone for a variety of reasons[some work nights,some don't have many friends to help them meet people ,some are shy.I don't think it is as simplistic as you make it.