The One

Its been over a month, I don't count the days anymore, I have no reason to contact her, there is nothing that she can contribute to me or my future.

I am in NC and would like to keep it going forever. She likes girls, end of story or chance for us ever even talking about reconciling.

Good Luck Everyone!!!

Ugh!!! Back to day One.

She called tonight and left a message, I was strong and didn't answere.

She IM'ed me on yahoo messenger and I responded "sorry I wasnt ignoring you I was busy and had some other stuff to take care of".

Then I called her back, I didn't leave a message. She Im'ed me back and said she was just kidding about me ignoring her.

The convo on yahoo messenger went on and we talked about what we have been up to and then we got around to about relationships and she told me she was still seeing the same person when I last talked to her. I then cut the convo short and said I had to go.

Jeeeze, this sucks, oh well, I need to ignore the call and message next time, unless she asks for reconciliation its just a hi how are you deal.

Back to NC for me.

I wish I could just smash any feelings I have for her.

Hang in there sarey!!!

Remember there are alot of people who care about you, including all of us at ENA. Peace!!

Day 34!!!!!, yes!!!!, made it through day 30. It hasn't been easy because I have had the urge to just call and see how she is doing. I have been keeping myself busy and thinking about the future and a few goals that I set for myself and I think that helped tremendously to keep my mind off of her, because of having those goals to look forward too.

I have some awsome female friends that I get to hang out with sometimes and thats cool for me, I don't want a relationship, I'm just having fun and if I do meet someone I like then you never know what life will bring.

I do still think about her and hope she is doing well. I am planning on moving to a new place pretty soon. I might consider contacting her then, as for right now I am going to continue with NC because it has helped me heal by leaps and bounds.

The One

Day 26,

I really do now believe in NC, for me things have been getting better every day.

I don't think she really cares how I am doing anyway, she hasn't tried calling in about 3 weeks. Thats ok it just makes it easier so then I don't have to resist answering the phone.

I think I am at the point where I do not care if I talk to her again or if she calls.

Welcome Rosie!!!

Cheers Everyone!!!

Day 22, Spending time with my family, havn't looked at the myspace, had the urge to call last night but I resisted.

Hope everyone is doing good, and stay strong!!!

Day 20, Doing better then I expected.

Every Day I'm feeling stronger and happier. Been dating, spending time with friends and family. Havn't had the urge to look at my myspace page or my ex's. Looking forward to the Day 30 milestone lol.

Day 19, Feeling better and stronger every day, I don't look at my myspace page anymore or my ex's, the next time I log on to it I will be deleting my page.

Thank You Enotalone Family!!!!!!

I think it's really great to see how everyone is getting better everyday.

Day 13,

I have been feeling happier, better and stronger everyday, hard part is coming up though, have a feeling she will try to call me this week.

keep Going Everybody, Lets get ourselves back!!!!!!

Welcome Irw301jk!!!!

Day 7, Concentrating on me and making me better.

Good Luck Everyone!!!!

Its O.K. AusTrist, don't beat yourself up over it.

Don't Worry, You can always start agian. Today!!! Day 1!!!!

You can do this!!!!!

"Angels fly because they take themselves lightly"

Stay Strong AusTrist!!!, unless she states clearly she wants to reconcile then don't respond, NC means NC.

Hang in there, It's about you, not her. You can do this!!!!!

Day 4, Concentrating on work, saw an old friend I have not seen much of for a while, repairing ties and renewing a good friendship that we used to have.

It felt good to, I guess you could say mend fences with an old friend.

Moving forward, thinking of every way of improving me, everything from being a better friend, brother, son, employee, and a better guy who respects and appreciates the time he gets to spend with the most important people in my life.

I still think about her, and yes miss her but when I do, I stop myself and remember that its not about her, its about me and how I will become so much better then how she knew me, because she lost someone great who only wants the best for her.

Keep Going Everyone!!!!

We can only go forward from here!!!!

"Angels fly because they take themselves lightly"

Starting Today, I accept the NO CONTACT CHALLENGE!!

It's been Three days, Doing Good, Thanks SuperDave!!!

"Angels fly because they take themselves lightly"