Dilemma

Nothing's wrong, maybe you're just too nervous or too tired (physically)... try to get into a relaxed state, or if you are indeed tired, just fool around in bed till you both get so hot and turned on...

You can get limp also if your not turned on enough... so make sure you're steaming hot..

yup i already checked in the bible and even prayed for all of this, but somehow i still feel confused as to whether masturbation is wrong or just something that humans do.

 

as far s health issues go, the speaker said that it has opposite effects, as we may become dependent on masturbation and not hold out until marriage to have sex.........sorry if im talking in circles here or making absolutely no sense.........hey its hard trying to get all that info out of your head! (just kidding)

 

If you would feel guilty about it and regret doing it, then don't.

 

But if you think it's ok and that God understands you, then proceed.

 

Remember, that you can interpret the bible anyway you can. Everybody can have his or her own version of it. What is important is that you get the message. That you become a good and responsible Christian or basically a good person inside and out.