surfergirl13

Do you think he would have acted the same way if it had been a guy, and not a girl hitting on you and kissing you?

Good point. I actually brought that up and he said he would have...I don't really buy it though.

My boyfriend was right there the whole time....he said that I am responsible for myself and he was not going to tell me what to do. WHat do you mean?

So, my boyfriend of 6 years and I went to a bar and there was this girl (friend of friends) who was bisexual and was hitting on me the whole night. I thought it was funny at first and would never consider being with a girl. Anyway, I ended up getting really drunk and the girl was in my face trying to get me to kiss her. I rejected her many times but eventually, I just gave in and kissed her. The next morning I felt horribly embarrassed and I know I would have never done that had I not been completely drunk. Well, my boyfriend is also totally embarrassed and he is saying that I cheated on him. He believes that the only way to "get even" is if we go out together and he kisses a girl while I watch. I feel really bad for what I did, but is he right?