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thank you for explaining,wexmen. I understand waht youre saying now.

Thanks everyone, but just to clarify:

Layword and Cardinal : you guys are suggesting that I do more, to help increase

wexmen: are you suggesting less?

so which way would be the best?

haha yeah, its just how can such a drastic change happen, i mean 40 to 5? thats so much.

Thanks everybody,but I think anti-depressants are a little extreme. Hopefully your ideas will help. I'll give them all a try, except for the anti depressant one, and then I'll post back here with either success or failure. Then, we can take it from there.

Its just really aggravating when it doesnt last

Hi I'm new here, and I need some adive/answers/help.

To give you a better view of everything , I'll start with a little background information. I am 16, I'll be 17 this winter. The first time I had sex I was 15. That time I'd say it lasted about 10, maybe 15 minutes tops.

Since that time, and before I met my new girlfriend, I had sex roughly 5 more times. All those experiences were longer than the first, which I thought was a good thing .

Anyways, on the first time with my new girlfriend i lasted 40 minutes, and well it was great. The next several time with her were around the same length, and we were both having a great time.

Lately, however, I cant last long at all. Its downright embarrassing for me-probably around 5 minutes. I can't figure out why the sudden change- i mean thats a drastic difference. Anyways its happened about 3 times now, consecutively.

Can anyone help?](*,)