El_ricko

well im moving back to ft myers in a week so i dun think its the space thing but im gonna call her today to see whats up

last night me and my g/f were on the phone...we started talkiing about alot of things...like how much i have changed and how much shes has changed since i had left and cmae back form the navy....she asked me a few weird questions that has me a lil worried....we were tlaking about me re-evaluating my life after the navy becuz now i dont have a career and i have to find a way to go to school and what not...and in the re-evaluating convo she told me i also had to look at us and re-evaluate her and i as a couple...does this mena she already has and is waitng for ym answer? or does this mean she knows she doesnt wanna be with me and is waiting to see if i make that decision so she doesnt have to hurt me? im a lil worried...

me and my g/f talk every day but we only talk for 15-20 min becuz i like you have ran out of stuff to talk about...but i think it makes it alot easier jus to hear the persons voice...we dont have a "meaningful" convo every time we talk someitmes its jus saying good night but maybe you should try shortening the convos until you do have something to talk about

Me and steff(my ldr partner) try to talk everyday even if its jus for 5 min...jus hearing her voice makes it easier....sometimes the only time we get to talk is to say good night to eahcother, but as long as we talk it makes it easier...it sounds like your LDR wasnt wnated from the get go....you found someone youhad fun with and then did LDR thing and now it sux like the initial passion of a relationship is gone and it being LD makes it really hard to continue a relationship....id say try to cut it off and see what happens

I guess what im gonna do is work here until like jan while visiting her on the weekends.....then after the holiday season ill try to transfer my job there to ft myers

whats the easiest way to get used to going day by day w/o your significant other? What helps to get used to them not always being there? When i feel like i miss her terribly what things should i do to get her outta my head so i can o other things like hang out w/ my family and whatnot

well i wanna move there but i dun wanna have to mooch and i got a final interview for a job here in Orlando....i dont have a car and i dont have a liscence so i cant jus up and go w/o preparation, can I?

Im 18yrs old...i went to the military right after high school. Before the military for about two months i stayed with my g/fs family becuase my family relocated to Orlando (We were in Fort Myers about 3 hrs away). I left for the military which was extremely hard. While in boot camp they found a prob with my knees and sent me home (to orlando) Now im living iwth my parents in Orlando and my g/f of 9 months (on Sept 11) is in Ft. Myers. Im having real difficulties staying here with my parents and not being there with her...any suggestions?